Hi guys, Nikki here
Thanks for visiting my blog. In this blog I’ll discuss body language of attraction – creating attraction by using body language.
Here you will find answers to questions like: Is body language really important in terms of social interactions and attraction? How can we read other people’s body language signs of attraction? How can we use our own body language to project attractiveness?
But before we get started I want to make clear what body language really is:
Body language is a nonverbal form of communication wherein a person expresses feelings, thoughts and intentions with his/hers physical behavior.
Does body language of attraction matter in social interactions?
The answer is a big YES! It matters a lot. Why? We all use body language subconsciously to express our emotions and feelings. And we all read body language subconsciously.
We pick on signals other people send via their body language to get a better understanding of them.
But it happens subconsciously – we don’t understand why we feel, for example attraction, disinterest or disrespect toward someone, we just feel that way.
The truth is that the way we feel about someone I determined by a lot of factors and body language is a big one.
When people communicate 20% of the information exchanged is verbal content, 20% is vocal tonality and 60% is body language. More than half of the information exchanged between people during interaction is body language. Body language is more important than what you say or how you say it.
99% of the people on this planet don’t know that. They don’t know that body language attraction is a powerful tool that can used to improve every area of our social life.
Having the ability to consciously read other people’s body language gives one a huge advantage because he/she can see their unspoken emotions, thoughts and intentions.
By reading the body language signs of attraction we can know if someone really is interested in us or not, no matter what they say.
You will read information, people are not aware they are giving out.
Furthermore, one can also use consciously use his/hers own body language to change how people perceive them.
If you’re a man and you can read the female body language attraction and use your own male body language attraction, you will have a big competitive advantage over the other guys in most social interactions.
How can we use the body language to make other people attracted toward us?
Say you are a guy like me and you want to pick up hot girls and like me when you get your chance you fail miserably. You are scared to approach or you don’t know what to say, or you know what to say, you two have a good time but at the end she puts you in the friend zone, it doesn’t matter.
It happens to a lot of us guys and is really frustrating. Every time I wanted to pick up a girl, something went wrong, I just couldn’t do it.
I didn’t understand why. What was wrong with me? Was I ugly or stupid or boring?
And then I read a book about picking up girls and it all became clear. I was doing all the wrong things, I didn’t have the proper body language to attract women, my approach mechanism was messed up and I couldn’t understand her body language.
The first shocker for me was that women trust your body language more than they trust your words.
Because people can lie, but body language never lies, it’s a subconscious form of communication. You can’t convince someone to like you because they should, a girl never thinks stuff like: “I should like him, because he is a nice guy, he is smart, financially stable and mature”. Attraction doesn’t work like that, attraction doesn’t follow logical patterns.
We have all seen hot girls fall for douchebags and guys who are obviously not good for them and at the same time the nice guys are left out to dry. Why?
Because the douche bags have the body language of attraction and most of the nice guys have the body language of a wuss. Douche bags show confidence with their body language, which women find very attractive and nice guys usually show submissive body language, which is unattractive to women.
You can be smart, fun, charming, great guy but if you don’t have the proper body language attraction, you are going to have a very hard time attracting women and people overall.
You can say whatever you want but if your body language is all wrong they won’t be attracted to you. But if you use the body language of attraction properly they will feel attracted to you, which something I think everyone would love to have in their arsenal of social skills.
About that book that I mentioned earlier, if you want to know the book is called The Tao Of Badass.
Maybe you’ve heard of it. It’s an ebook for men teaching how to pick up chicks, how to meet girls, get a girlfriend, anything in those lines.
It shows you how to be attractive, with heavy emphasis on using body language to attract women. I personally think it’s a great book with very helpful content for guys.
Not only it teaches one how to pick up girls in general but it shows you how to be more confident and interact with people better overall. It helps you improve your social skills on every level, which is awesome. Here is a screenshot of the contents of the book, if you want to see the chapters:
For me the book really helped me turn from a wuss into a real man. Now, I am not saying that I slept with 100 or 1000 girls, after reading this book, I am not the womanizer type.
I really wanted this one particular girl that I met 3 years ago, but she is really hot and I was a wuss. After going through the book and following all the advice I became more confident, my social skills improved, my anxiety was gone. So, I found this girl, she fell for me and now she is my girlfriend.
The book helped me become a man and get the girl I want.
Apart from the book itself, there is an online members area where there are dozens of instructional videos, a ton of bonus material and you can interact with other members:
I strongly recommend this book to all of you guys, there is so much great information in it, whether you want to pick up chicks, get a girlfriend or just interact with people better, understand more about body language of attraction, it can help you.
It’s not a magic pill however. You are not going to hook up with a dozen girls 30 mins after reading the book. You need to apply the knowledge and it takes time to master it.
Check it out, you won’t regret it.